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Lula, 32
United States, New York, Elmhurst

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I'm new to this site so I'm giving this a try. My hobbies consist of Reading, watching movies and scrap booking etc. My goals in life are to better my career and education for me and my son. I want to be able to set an example for him knowing if his mom can do it and above then he can too. I'm well determined to reach my dreams of becoming the first veterinarian in the family. I'm yearning to have that special someone back in my life, someone whom I can talk to and tell everything that's been happening. Someone to come home too after a rough day at work. Someone to cuddle up with to watch movies or when its raining. WOW..I'm being asked to talk about myself lol...Well....Here goes nothing. I'm a single mother to a handsome 4 yr old little boy whom is my world. He's quite a character lol. I've been divorced almost 2 years so I do share custody of my son, but he lives with me a good majority of the time. I just finished up school to receive my Certification in the Vet Medicine field, the Vet assistant Program. I work full time and I'm a full time mother. I do plan to go back to school to further my Vet medicine. I'm a very loyal and Honest person, passionate about a lot of things, animals being one of them. I've always been told I'm a unique person. I find myself different from the woman race. But only you can judge that! I do have a positive outlook on things. I'm an easy person to get a long with,kind,caring,knows what she wants in life and can be funny can have quite a sense of humor or so everyone tells me ;) But I do know when to be serious. I am Independent, I have my own car and lives out on her own. Very loving person who would do anything for anyone especially for my son..I am blunt and truthful but will not tolerate anyone whose not upfront cause the way I look at it, if you wear several masks then your not who you are and there for the person you wanting to know won't actually know who you actually and truly are.. Love to go hang out, walk or just relax at home fixing dinner and watching a movie on Netflix.. Very much a hoodie / t-shirt / jeans kind of girl and a flip flop kind a girl, but you ask me to dress up I'd do it. Very close to my family and my friends, may have a disagreement every once in a while but in the end we're still just as close as before. I love to read, sing and listen to all sorts of music, classical is my favorite its calming when sleeping or relaxing. My way of thinking is if its meant to be then it will happen, if its not then the show must go on. What i look for in a relationship is someone I can trust, communicate with and be myself around, someone who will accept/love me for me and Who will accept my son because we are a package deal. Must Love kids has a good head on their shoulders and knows what they want and isn't afraid to go after it. I'm pretty much an open book if you would like to know more, feel free to ask away :) I come from a Military family, Air Force to be exact. So we traveled a lot moving from place to place. Because of that I love to travel though I haven't travel very far but NY where I have family. I don't like High school games think they are nothing but drama and trouble to follow.Do feel free to ask...I'm an open book For a first Date... I think its where ever we decide to go quite honestly. Not a very picky girl when it comes to dating. It can be a cafe for all I care or maybe Putt Putt. Just somewhere, where we can chit chat and get to know one another. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Craft Making Adult Fantasy Sport Bowling Soccer / Football Computer Games
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am just checking this out... I am pretty laid back. I cannot do drama or stalkers lol. I am currently in college and work full time so I value my free time and use it wisely!! I am definitely someone that would rather be silly and laugh however I can be serious if I absolutely have to be... I'm an open book so if you have questions, just ask. I'll answer honestly but just know you may not like the answer lol... And yes, I am one of those people that does the "lol" thing!! Can't help it lol Anything besides a movie... Isn't the whole point of a first date to "talk" and get to know each other???

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Before I get started, some of the more valuable words in my vocabulary where others(of the opposite sex, of course) are concerned include(but are not limited to): forthwright, integrity, initiative, masculinity, astute, and finesse. If these words do not easily describe you please stop, hit the 'back' button, and continue on with your search. That having been said...Hello Gentlemen,I'm here simply looking for a exciting encounters, whatever form that may take(if you're thinking about sex already, stop, hit the back button, and keep searching). My preference is for men with classic values and appreciation for a woman's femininity(bonus points will be awarded for those who can cook). Suggestions for new experiences are always welcome, if you're willing to take the lead. Some words others have used to describe me would be artsy, outdoorsy, extroverted, and cerebral(the latter makes good conversationalists a must). Honesty is valued above all else.Thank you for stopping by. Have a great day!PS--I always thought it would be fun to have a fling with a man who owned a motorcycle.***Addendum: Did I mention that I love military men? Let me be honest...I love all men, they just get a special appreciation. Also, please don't honestly expect an answer if you fill your e-mail with mindless characters to hit the limit. If you need someone to carry the conversation or initiate a meeting, I am certain there are other women on this site who would be happy to assist. A woman really needs someone to take her like a man(and treat her/talk to her like a lady).***Addendum: Please let me be clear--though I am outwardly sexual, I am not here in search of a sex partner. If great sex happens to be a by-product of an oustanding date, far be it from me to stick my nose up(I am not a prude, after all). :) PS--please note that hurling your number at me in an e-mail and expecting me to call is probably not the best way to get my attention.***Addendum: My goal with this post is to meet people in person. Are there any gentlemen here that are willing to actually meet in person?***Addendum: I am a happy person. You should be, as well. Also, I will never ever waste your time(and expect the same).***Addendum: Does sending a text message(which goes to my phone from your phone) saying 'Call me' really make sense? Does that imply that you've somehow lost my number? Please also refer to part B of the ***Addendum for support.***Addendum: Texters are a turnoff. I'm pretty sure I mentioned something about being able to hold a conversation(cool points for added wit and humor).***Addendum: A man opening the car door for a woman is delightful.***Addendum: Sorry to anyone who sent a message during my absence. I was closing on a new house and am now swimming in boxes(feel free to rescue me-- So the addendum this time is pls dnt bthr snding msgs if u hv a hrd time writing in full sntnces. I really dnt care if ur sending msgs from ur phone, not hvng access to a real computer dsnt excuse poor grmatics n sntenc structure. A wmn needs intellectual stimulation.***Addendum: Let me be direct...I don't text. If you can't read, it's truly not my problem. Don't be hurt, it's simply a personal preference. I deal in real life, not virtuality.***Addendum: All references to the ***Addendum aside, if you barely glance up from your menu and don't bother to stand and greet me on an initial meeting your chances of seeing me ever again are extremely slim. You shouldn't wonder after an incident like that why you're not getting a response.***Addendum: Sending me a text message 20min after we are scheduled to meet at a restaurant that wasn't even open and expecting a response is a wasted effort. Following it up with a phone call an hour later is simply annoying.***Addendum: Again, I am not here for sex. If your profile mentions you're looking for an intimate encounter and you're trying to convince me in a chat session that you want more than that, it probably won't work. Excuse my ffrench, but please don't piss on my back and tell me it's raining.***Addendum: I heard on the radio this morning that people were flocking to Vegas to get married. My hope for all those couples who are brave enough to go on an impulse is that they never lose the courage of spontaneity. My hope for their impulse is that it was well seated.***Addendum: Throwing a fit about small things either upon a first meeting or first conversation is completely unbecoming. I'm really looking for someone who is tactful and able to communicate their points.***Addendum: Forum Letters. Really? If you can't think of something original to say, I don't believe you have the right to 'want someone special'. If your actions are the same for every woman, how do you expect to find something different?***Addendum: Oh lord, I can't believe I have to say this. No, I am not ***friendly(are you nuts???!?!?!). I have worked entirely too hard to get where I'm at and would never do anything so stupid to jeopardize my success.***Addendum: If you chat with me for 2 seconds and ask me creepy questions, don't get upset when I'm reluctant to give you my digits. I have a lot of contacts in my phone, and it would be a serious pain to update them because I gave my number to a weirdo.***Addendum: Note to self...don't give creepers another chance to redeem themselves. Do I really need to say that you're not going to get any cool points or hold my attention if you as me if I have a big booty? I consider myself a positive person, but I have to wonder how people like that made it to adulthood and keep a job(afterthought: but then again...I don't know that they do).PS--thank you to the well mannered gentleman who was in the air force. Making a woman laugh is always much appreciated, as is the engaging conversation.***Addendum: Let it be said that everyone online is not a dud. Thank you, Mr. No preferences for a first date--there are many factors that influence where to go and what to do. Good chemistry will promote an enjoyable evening, no matter which option is chosen. I will say that you should have an idea where you want to take me. Yes, you will be leading-I don't want a man I can walk on.

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