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Lula, 32
United States, New York, Elmhurst

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About Me

I'm new to this site so I'm giving this a try. My hobbies consist of Reading, watching movies and scrap booking etc. My goals in life are to better my career and education for me and my son. I want to be able to set an example for him knowing if his mom can do it and above then he can too. I'm well determined to reach my dreams of becoming the first veterinarian in the family. I'm yearning to have that special someone back in my life, someone whom I can talk to and tell everything that's been happening. Someone to come home too after a rough day at work. Someone to cuddle up with to watch movies or when its raining. WOW..I'm being asked to talk about myself lol...Well....Here goes nothing. I'm a single mother to a handsome 4 yr old little boy whom is my world. He's quite a character lol. I've been divorced almost 2 years so I do share custody of my son, but he lives with me a good majority of the time. I just finished up school to receive my Certification in the Vet Medicine field, the Vet assistant Program. I work full time and I'm a full time mother. I do plan to go back to school to further my Vet medicine. I'm a very loyal and Honest person, passionate about a lot of things, animals being one of them. I've always been told I'm a unique person. I find myself different from the woman race. But only you can judge that! I do have a positive outlook on things. I'm an easy person to get a long with,kind,caring,knows what she wants in life and can be funny can have quite a sense of humor or so everyone tells me ;) But I do know when to be serious. I am Independent, I have my own car and lives out on her own. Very loving person who would do anything for anyone especially for my son..I am blunt and truthful but will not tolerate anyone whose not upfront cause the way I look at it, if you wear several masks then your not who you are and there for the person you wanting to know won't actually know who you actually and truly are.. Love to go hang out, walk or just relax at home fixing dinner and watching a movie on Netflix.. Very much a hoodie / t-shirt / jeans kind of girl and a flip flop kind a girl, but you ask me to dress up I'd do it. Very close to my family and my friends, may have a disagreement every once in a while but in the end we're still just as close as before. I love to read, sing and listen to all sorts of music, classical is my favorite its calming when sleeping or relaxing. My way of thinking is if its meant to be then it will happen, if its not then the show must go on. What i look for in a relationship is someone I can trust, communicate with and be myself around, someone who will accept/love me for me and Who will accept my son because we are a package deal. Must Love kids has a good head on their shoulders and knows what they want and isn't afraid to go after it. I'm pretty much an open book if you would like to know more, feel free to ask away :) I come from a Military family, Air Force to be exact. So we traveled a lot moving from place to place. Because of that I love to travel though I haven't travel very far but NY where I have family. I don't like High school games think they are nothing but drama and trouble to follow.Do feel free to ask...I'm an open book For a first Date... I think its where ever we decide to go quite honestly. Not a very picky girl when it comes to dating. It can be a cafe for all I care or maybe Putt Putt. Just somewhere, where we can chit chat and get to know one another. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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