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Alfreda, 34
United States, California, Vista

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About Me

I'm a single mom of a beautiful 8 year old girl. I'm a speech-language pathologist working in a school district, so I have a lot of free time because of my amazing work schedule! During that time I love to travel and explore new and familiar places. I despise sitting around with nothing to do, so if you're someone who likes to sleep the day away or sit around watching TV all day, then we're probably not a good match. The fall is my favorite season. I love to be outdoors with the cool, crisp weather. I enjoy taking my daughter apple picking, pumpkin picking and bike riding.As cliché as it sounds, I am looking for a man to not only be my partner, but to also be my best friend. A good match for me would be someone who is fun to be around but also has a serious side when it's important. I would love to find someone with many of the same interests as me as well as other interests that I can be introduced to. Most importantly, though, my match needs to have a big heart and be able to love my daughter as if she were his own. Bonus points if he happens to be a Yankee fan!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Turkish Action Animation Drama Family & Kids Motorcycle Racing
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