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Elvia, 33
United States, California, Vista

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I'm a hard working career woman who works hard and plays hard. I feel like I have two dual sides to my personality... I take life seriously and am very proud of my career and financial stability but at the same time would love to have a lazy life where I could spend all day napping and doing bikram yoga. I also love to be playful and silly and you can often catch me having living room dance parties and jumping in puddles with my young daughter. I consider my lifestyle, views on life, and people I choose to surround myself with to be more of the alternative sort and it's important to me to surround myself with open minded and accepting people. I'm not at all religious and definitely don't go to church. I am very much spiritual. I am really into using positive thinking and the law of attractions to manifest the things I desire in my life. The movie "The Secret" is like my bible and has helped me to manifest many amazing things. I do a lot of goal setting and in general am pretty ambitious.If you feel like you could be a match for me, please feel free to message me and tell me more about yourself. I'm super affectionate, so dating someone who loves to snuggle and be physically close is essential to me. I have a 4 year old daughter and a 22 year old step daughter that I love to pieces. At this point in my life I don't want any more children and don't see that changing. I would prefer to date someone who already has one or more kids of their own and is happy to not have any more. I would consider dating someone who doesn't have children, but only if they didnt want any of their own. I believe my perfect match is out there, I just need to find him. What kind of man do I think is a good match for me? Someone who accepts me for who I am, is responsible, passionate, honest, and loyal. Someone who brings out the best in me and is a good, dedicated father. Physically, I have always preferred darker men.The best of luck to all of you in finding whatever it may be that you are searching for! Grab a coffee and go for a walk. Something simple so there is no pressure on anybody.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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