Total users: 62,748,550 Online users: 225,985
Elvia, 33
United States, California, Vista

Offline, last seen Mon, 11 May 2026 22:29:57

About Me

I'm a hard working career woman who works hard and plays hard. I feel like I have two dual sides to my personality... I take life seriously and am very proud of my career and financial stability but at the same time would love to have a lazy life where I could spend all day napping and doing bikram yoga. I also love to be playful and silly and you can often catch me having living room dance parties and jumping in puddles with my young daughter. I consider my lifestyle, views on life, and people I choose to surround myself with to be more of the alternative sort and it's important to me to surround myself with open minded and accepting people. I'm not at all religious and definitely don't go to church. I am very much spiritual. I am really into using positive thinking and the law of attractions to manifest the things I desire in my life. The movie "The Secret" is like my bible and has helped me to manifest many amazing things. I do a lot of goal setting and in general am pretty ambitious.If you feel like you could be a match for me, please feel free to message me and tell me more about yourself. I'm super affectionate, so dating someone who loves to snuggle and be physically close is essential to me. I have a 4 year old daughter and a 22 year old step daughter that I love to pieces. At this point in my life I don't want any more children and don't see that changing. I would prefer to date someone who already has one or more kids of their own and is happy to not have any more. I would consider dating someone who doesn't have children, but only if they didnt want any of their own. I believe my perfect match is out there, I just need to find him. What kind of man do I think is a good match for me? Someone who accepts me for who I am, is responsible, passionate, honest, and loyal. Someone who brings out the best in me and is a good, dedicated father. Physically, I have always preferred darker men.The best of luck to all of you in finding whatever it may be that you are searching for! Grab a coffee and go for a walk. Something simple so there is no pressure on anybody.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Blues Classical Canadian Indian Irish Vietnamese Horror War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Ramona from Vista | Woman | 31 years old | Aquarius
    Ramona

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hi there, I love the Okanagan lifestyle and look forward to finding the right person to share my time with. I keep pretty busy between work, fitness, hanging with my family/friends and am able to live a balanced social life.I enjoy Big White in the winter, hikes and anything to do with the lake in the summer. I adore sampling the fantastic wines we have in the valley as well as trying out new restaurants. I'd really like to spend some more time camping in the new future and hope to find a partner who likes the outdoors.Some words to describe me: good-hearted, easy going, laid back, loyal, trustworthy, honest, open minded, friendly, sweet, adventurous, caring, fun, respectful and positiveI am cultured, have a thirst for travel and can appreciate both the fine and very simple things in life. I love all types of music and have fun pretending I can sing...lol. I find it super attractive when a man can dance. I am a tall woman so I tend to prefer men who are 6ft and aboveI prefer not to list the things I am NOT looking for as I believe that just attracts negative energy. ***'ll put out the positive vibes and smile when something good comes my way :-) I am open to dating fellas from a different city or who work out of town as I am an independent women and can keep busy doing my own thing.Happy fishing Something simple ....prefer the phone thing first then perhaps meet up for a bevie or whatever you suggest ??

    Chat
  • Michael from Vista | Woman | 31 years old | Aquarius
    Michael

    Offline

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Who knows what to write in theses things... I have a twisted sense of humor, my friends would all say I think like a man (not really sure if that's a good thing...lol). I enjoy going to concerts, love the Reading Royals, and I am definitely a gardening geek. So I'm confused...am I supposed to talk about what a great first date would be, or what my first date actually was??? Lol!

    Chat
  • Loretta from Vista | Woman | 34 years old | Virgo
    Loretta

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm a pretty laid back kind of girl looking to have a good time. I love being with friends and family. I'm a warm weather girl who teaches, so I'm always looking forward to having the summer off. I like watching and participating in sports. My friends would charachterize me as a jokester and I'm o.k. with that title. I enjoy making people laugh. I love a good Sunday Funday :) As far as music, I pretty much listen to everything, but probably country music the most.I'm looking for someone who wants to spend time together, but also knows that time apart is good for a relationship's growth. We don't need to be *** mates, but I'm also pretty good at recogninzing if there is a future once I meet you (granted it could take 1 date or it could take 4). I have a big heart and I'm basically looking to share that and all of my future good times with. My first date would have to be at a bar. I think a relaxed setting and some drinks helps to get a conversation going...and if you start at happy hour times it's good whether the date goes good or bad ;)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: