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Bethany, 32
United States, California, Vista

Offline, last seen Thu, 18 Dec 2025 19:56:51

About Me

I'm an East coast girl with a big heart and a good head on my shoulders. I am a very hard worker and take pride in what I do. I have my own condo and car and would appreciate the same type of stability in a man. I'm a huge animal lover and also have a soft spot for the elderly. I have an amazing family who I am very close with and a super great group of friends both near and far. Talk about making my heart melt :) Having worked for a major airline for several years, it's obvious to say that I love to travel. I miss the ocean. I love to play most sports and enjoy going to games, although I've never been to an NHL game...yet. I'm a very independent girl and have learned how to fix things that are broken, how to build things and yes I can even pump my own gas! I love to laugh and make others laugh, it's good for the soul ya know! I can be serious when need be but I think it's important to enjoy life and to not sweat the small stuff. I've lead an interesting life and can tell you some pretty insane stories. I drove across the country, alone...and yes I would do it again in a heartbeat. I love nature and being outdoors. I'm very good at rollerblading but sadly it seems to be a dying fad. I'm a girl so yes I like to shop (but will always bring you back something!) I believe that honesty still is the best policy so keep it real or hit the road!!! Yes you've read it right, I am only 5 apples tall (you wouldn't believe how many people ask if it's a typo). Music is my life, although I can't play any ***'d sure like to learn! I love anything Italian...the food, the wine, the music...so much that I'm teaching myself the language. (huge plus if you are Italian ** **) I've never been married or engaged and have no children. I guess if you asked me why I am single I would say that it's mostly by choice....just haven't met the right one yet. If I didn't scare you off then drop me a line...I never make the first move so don't be shy. Cheers! I'm pretty simple, beer and a pub or I can get all fancy and head to a nice dinner as well

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Electro Camping / Hiking Watching TV Greek Irish Vietnamese Adult Comedy Documentary Martial Arts Sailing
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