Total users: 60,473,800 Online users: 217,978
Violet, 53

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 05:52:18

About Me

Hello, I enjoy reading,writing,cooking and occassionally riding my Motorcycle. I am very compassionate,yet assertive and competitive. I travel frequently and I am outgoing.I have accomplished most of what I have wanted to do in life at a considerably young age.I am single because I have high expectations. I have high expectations because I am worthy.I have worked hard to be where I am in life. However, that dedication has left me with no one to share my life with.I am so unique that one would have to get to know me fully to appreciate just how much so. I very much enjoy country music but also classic rock. Having said that, I am a classical music lover at heart. The sound of classical guitar and steel guitar makes my heart sing! Though I am looking for a relationship, I would like to take it slow. Would prefer not to make big mistakes.If you are a serial dater, I am not interested.I want someone kind,gentle and compassionate;someone self sufficient,as am I. Good looks are a bonus but not a prerequisite. I am an attractive woman as I am very confident.If you feel we may be compatible, by all means,send me a message. at the very least I will be polite and reply.Don't believe in beating around the bush. My life is too busy to waste time. I would appreciate the same respect. Thankyou Dinner would be nice, if I feel comfortable enough with that. Not one to run out to coffee shops(don't even drink coffee) so awkward!!! Maybe something short and quiet to begin with. Depends on the person and the level of trust.I am willing to compromise on the other persons comfort zone.If a second date should occur it,of course,would be different.I enjoy the quiet life with my significant other but I can relax and cut loose when warranted.Lets just say I am indecisive on that at the moment because it is a mute point.No, I am far from boring but I am cautious. With my enormous heart,I have much to lose. Prefer to save all my love for that special someone. Makes sense to me.If it doesn't make sense to you,why bother to waste my time or Yours?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Deanne

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello there, and welcome to my profile....I'm just a simple person. I try to keep my life as stress-free as possible. Being raised on a farm and a true country girl at heart, I understand the significance of a hard days work ...mentally and physically. I work every day for a wonderful doctor and also run a small subcontracting business. I love working and have no intention of retiring any time soon. As far as my past, who doesn't at 52? But my past is just that! I am looking forward to the future, enjoying the rest of my life with new experiences and adventure. I laugh every day..at something, someone or myself. What great medicine and it’s free! A sense of humor is a must. It would be a rarity to find someone who has the same broad range of interest. First date stuff has a tendency to make us all nervous, but we have nothing to loose and if anything, a new friendship to gain. So if we've made it past the first minute of eye to eye... it would be fun to relax and enjoy the company. Although I'm the Mother of three wonderful young men, my nest has a tendency to be empty quite often. They will always be my priority as it should be but my life does not revolve around their every moment. But if they need me...they know I'm there.The dating scene at this age is no easy task and really...I'm not sure meeting someone in this manner is the way to go but it's inevitable. Our social options are limited and this is what everyone seems to rely on. I prefer to date a man taller than I. This is not a slam, just a preference. We all know the attraction from the get-go is important. If it's mutual...we'll know. Best wishes for much happiness.. :) I would prefer a quaint destination, agreeable to us both, which allows us the opportunity to converse and get to know one another.

  • Rebecca

    Online

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I grew up one of the guys...Playing football, climbing trees, talking smack; I can totally hold my own... But make no mistake I am a total lady and prefer to be treated as one... I enjoy myself in everything I do... I try to have a good time and I enjoy looking for humor, irony and just plan stupidity everywhe. I don’t know what the rest of my life will look like but I know it involves as much fun, laughter, music, yoga, love, adventure, excitement and passion as I can squeeze in… oh yeah and lots of good food…I LOVE to cook…I’m just not crazy about going the rest of it alone... I’ve spent more time here than I have left so I fully intend to live the rest of it to the fullest, I want to burn out rather than fade away. *With an occasional early bird special at Luby’s and naps thrown in there to shake things up a little*

  • Peggy

    Offline

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    How to describe myself in ***words or less? Let's see....Let's go dancing. Let's go to the beach where we go shelling, or we sit and watch the sunset with a good bottle of wine as our only other companion. Let's go to Gallery Night with friends and hit up the Global Grill for tapas. What about camping down on the river where we can sit by the fire at night and listen to the hoot owls. Do you know how to canoe? Let's go. Let's rent a movie and cuddle on the couch with a bag of popcorn. Let's have the kids over for dinner, where you'll grill the steaks and I'll cook the sides than we'll sit around the table and laugh at our crazy family. How bout we go to church where we'll sit with your arm around me while we listen to a really good sermon, than let's grab lunch and hold hands across the table. Can we share a sweet kiss and a tight hug after we've both come home from a really long day at work. We can fix dinner together talking about our day while enjoying each other's company than settle in for a quiet evening at home. Won't it be nice to know that I've got your back and you've got mine. To look forward to the end of a long day because we'll know that the best part of the day is yet to come cause we'll finally be together. To look forward to snuggling in bed and doing whatever else might come to mind :) And hopefully the day will come where we can't imagine the world before Us and don't want to think about the world without Us! A great first date is anything that allows two people to get to know each other, have fun, and enjoy each others company.

Follow Us: