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About Me

Hello, I enjoy reading,writing,cooking and occassionally riding my Motorcycle. I am very compassionate,yet assertive and competitive. I travel frequently and I am outgoing.I have accomplished most of what I have wanted to do in life at a considerably young age.I am single because I have high expectations. I have high expectations because I am worthy.I have worked hard to be where I am in life. However, that dedication has left me with no one to share my life with.I am so unique that one would have to get to know me fully to appreciate just how much so. I very much enjoy country music but also classic rock. Having said that, I am a classical music lover at heart. The sound of classical guitar and steel guitar makes my heart sing! Though I am looking for a relationship, I would like to take it slow. Would prefer not to make big mistakes.If you are a serial dater, I am not interested.I want someone kind,gentle and compassionate;someone self sufficient,as am I. Good looks are a bonus but not a prerequisite. I am an attractive woman as I am very confident.If you feel we may be compatible, by all means,send me a message. at the very least I will be polite and reply.Don't believe in beating around the bush. My life is too busy to waste time. I would appreciate the same respect. Thankyou Dinner would be nice, if I feel comfortable enough with that. Not one to run out to coffee shops(don't even drink coffee) so awkward!!! Maybe something short and quiet to begin with. Depends on the person and the level of trust.I am willing to compromise on the other persons comfort zone.If a second date should occur it,of course,would be different.I enjoy the quiet life with my significant other but I can relax and cut loose when warranted.Lets just say I am indecisive on that at the moment because it is a mute point.No, I am far from boring but I am cautious. With my enormous heart,I have much to lose. Prefer to save all my love for that special someone. Makes sense to me.If it doesn't make sense to you,why bother to waste my time or Yours?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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