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About Me

Hello, I enjoy reading,writing,cooking and occassionally riding my Motorcycle. I am very compassionate,yet assertive and competitive. I travel frequently and I am outgoing.I have accomplished most of what I have wanted to do in life at a considerably young age.I am single because I have high expectations. I have high expectations because I am worthy.I have worked hard to be where I am in life. However, that dedication has left me with no one to share my life with.I am so unique that one would have to get to know me fully to appreciate just how much so. I very much enjoy country music but also classic rock. Having said that, I am a classical music lover at heart. The sound of classical guitar and steel guitar makes my heart sing! Though I am looking for a relationship, I would like to take it slow. Would prefer not to make big mistakes.If you are a serial dater, I am not interested.I want someone kind,gentle and compassionate;someone self sufficient,as am I. Good looks are a bonus but not a prerequisite. I am an attractive woman as I am very confident.If you feel we may be compatible, by all means,send me a message. at the very least I will be polite and reply.Don't believe in beating around the bush. My life is too busy to waste time. I would appreciate the same respect. Thankyou Dinner would be nice, if I feel comfortable enough with that. Not one to run out to coffee shops(don't even drink coffee) so awkward!!! Maybe something short and quiet to begin with. Depends on the person and the level of trust.I am willing to compromise on the other persons comfort zone.If a second date should occur it,of course,would be different.I enjoy the quiet life with my significant other but I can relax and cut loose when warranted.Lets just say I am indecisive on that at the moment because it is a mute point.No, I am far from boring but I am cautious. With my enormous heart,I have much to lose. Prefer to save all my love for that special someone. Makes sense to me.If it doesn't make sense to you,why bother to waste my time or Yours?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Luz

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    ABOUT ME: I am an independent woman who takes care of most things myself. I would really enjoy a companion who is not afraid of a long term relationship and wants to share those responsibilities with me. I am friendly and social and enjoy meeting new people. I'm intelligent and put thought into things. I'm active, outgoing and energetic. I love to laugh, and would love to meet someone who can make me laugh. I prefer to be outside , weather permitting, as much as possible. I enjoy exploring, hiking, and water activities. I have a good sense of humor, and a strong wit. I am strong, but I have a sensitive side.I like to be spontaneous with my free time, and explore and discover new places.WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: I am looking for a long term companion, and am not into mind games or one night stands. I believe trust is the basis for a good relationship, so my man must be sincere and honest. My ideal mate is intelligent and able to express and communicate their thoughts well. They must have a good sense of humor and know how to be playful. They must be health conscious. Would be nice for them to share similar interests, and have a sense of adventure. I definitely want a man who knows how to treat a lady, but doesn't mind her by his side while doing chores or work. I have two dogs, so they need to be animal friendly.I want someone who is willing to put as much into a relationship as they take out of it. Meet for coffee or a drink and get to know each other to see if there is any connection.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    ~will you~if i touch your mind,will you lead lead me to your heart?if i touch your hand,will you guide me through the dark?if i touch your lips,will the journey start?if i touch your soul,will we ever part?Looking for my best friend and lover. I hope to find a man that is honest, open, fun and a great communicator. That isn't afraid to show public displays of affection when he feels the urge. I love to kiss, hold hands and give and receive hugs. Going out is great but spending time alone with each other snuggled up is even better. I love to ride motorcycles, 4-wheelers and muddin', camping, etc., movies,trying new and exciting things as well as traveling to new places. I enjoy listening to all types of music because music can set the mood for anything. I am a caring, giving and loving type of person. I've been told my smile is full of love, eyes sparkle and my heart is made of gold. Anywhere that we can talk and enjoy the company of each other to see if there is a connection. The second date is hopefully where the journey begins.

  • Bertie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an artist, but I have a daytime job that keeps food on the table. I am easy going, funny, a little sarcastic with a good perspective on life. I do have some extra pounds to lose, which I am working on. I like all kinds of music and listen to whatever I am in the mood for! I enjoy reading, going out with friends and family, going to the beach or mountains and spending time with my grandchildren. I'd like a good relationship with a good man that is easy going, and thoughtful. We don't have to spend every waking moment together, but we should look forward to seeing each other! If this sounds good to you, drop me a line, and be honest, no gamers or one-nighters....we are all adults here. We can start with friendship and work from there if the chemistry is right! Good luck fishing!! Cafe lunch, dinner, a picnic, a long drive, a conversation about life around a small fire in the backyard. Conversation about each other to see if there's any chemistry, and go from there.

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