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Twila, 53
United States, Wisconsin, Appleton

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About Me

A tall, confident man attracts my attention. Happy, social, and open-minded are other traits I admire. But true old-fashioned values, and an understanding of the dynamic between a man and a woman and the roles each has in a relationship, is the most appealing trait of all. I long to feel safe, secure, and someday, loved...to be held in the arms of a man I'm proud of (and who's proud of me), and who makes me want to be nowhere else in the world but there. He smiles to himself when we're apart, simply because I make him happy...I'm his special girl. He holds my vulnerability gently in his hands, and allows me to be myself...encourages it. He cherishes me. And I will cherish him. Would love to find the captivating man described above. Could it be you? Good conversationalist a must. Spark my intellect! I'm an affectionate gal too, once I'm comfortable. And I happen to think a great sense of humor is a darn sexy thing for a man to have. And just so you know...I'm aaaaaall woman. Boating, sailing, hopping onto a jet ski or motorcycle (back of the bike only, thankyouverymuch) are pastimes I can't get enough of. On a lazy day I'll sit outside and get engrossed in a book or my sketch pad. (Being tucked up beside you, as we laze in the sun, would be a perfect way to spend the day.) Skeet shooting, swimming and dancing are things I like to do. I'm an intermediate-level snow skier with a NAUI dive card (what a combo). And after a couple of glasses of "aiming fluid", I can shoot a pretty mean game of pool too. (Oh yeah...and I like to shop. I'm a girl. Its what we do.)Small casual gatherings are the BEST kind. (LOVE my shorts and flip flops) Old friends and new, a couple of "adult beverages" thrown in for good measure...life's "aaah" moments. Getting dressed up to go out is fun too. (Have waaay too many sexy heels to let 'em sit and collect dust.) I think hosting parties at home is even better than attending them elsewhere. (Okay, I just might root a little harder for the 'Noles...) Road trips...love 'em. Planned or spontaneous...with a destination in mind or just following the road ahead...doesn't matter. I've embraced a new way of looking at life, after starting fresh and shiny-new. Living IN the moment is the most important thing for me. Life doesn't start later, tomorrow, next week...its what we're doing RIGHT NOW...and I've been making the most of it. Something else you might want to know 'bout me (and I'm giving you fair warning), I enjoy being challenged, and I hope you do too...'cause I CAN be a handful. I'm willful and sassy, and playful and fun. I spend most of my days with a big ol' smile on my face, and I'll keep one on yours as long as we're open to each other. (But I'll bet you'll want to chase me around the kitchen island a time or two...its that dang sassy thing.)I have two GREAT kids. My daughter is 23, proudly married to a soldier, and gave birth to my very first grandchild in ***. (She's the one who convinced me to give this crazy site a try, by the way.) My son is 20, is also in the Army, and married his high school sweetheart earlier this year. (Hoo-ah! I'm a proud mama.)Oh, and one more thing, in case you're still interested: I was a commissioned officer in the US Army. (yes, really). That's it...that's me in a five minute read. Soooo...what are you waiting for? Something as simple as meeting for a drink and a chat to see if there is a spark between us would be an ideal first meeting. A nice relaxing spot, preferably outside (weather permitting) would suit me just fine. A game of pool or shooting darts would be fun too. No matter what...if its easy to converse, if we look directly into each other's eyes as we do, if a giggle or ten erupts during our exchange, I'd say yes to spending more time getting to know you better...if you agreed. (And if I flirt with you during our first meeting, trust me, you're golden.) Second date? ...bring a crash helmet...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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