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Callie, 51
United States, Wisconsin, Appleton

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About Me

I walk before I run. Reduces the risk of tripping and falling on our way to a destination...I might not be the most beautiful or the sexiest, nor do I have the perfect body. I might not be first choice, but I am a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm just too good at being me. I might not be proud of some things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away....It seems I need to clarify my previouns paragraph based on comments I've received regarding it. I, in no way, have an issue with self-image - quite the opposite - I'm perfect the way I am; and so is everyone else. That is my point in what I've written above. I'm perfectly imperfect and I expect you are too. So based on that - we either connect or disconnect. No one is for everyone. Now that that's a little clearer. I hope... I spend a lot of time with my female friends, and realize that what I really miss is the one-on-one interaction and company of a man; conversations that bring a different dimension, perspective and understanding. I live my life without expectations, but with plenty of optimism. It all begins with dating and friendship, if there is meant to be more, it will be. Would like nothing more than to experience the 'spark', the 'butterflies' and the passion, yet am secure in knowing time is on my side and patience is a virtue.I am your 'regular girl' (ok, woman)... comfortable in my own skin and secure in my life. Interested in getting to know others who are similar; who like to enjoy life, are optimistic and would rather spend time on the move, than living day to day forming a mold in a couch cushion. You? It's time to be upfront... physical attraction is key. You're someone who takes pride in his appearance. That doesn't mean dressed to impress ***, but well groomed and can look great in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt as well as at that black tie event.-accepting attitude he possessed. So you're open-minded and accepting and are active enough that your belt isn't fastened 7 inches below your waist. You possess some old fashioned values but appreciate what the 21st century has to offer without fear or judgment. You are financially healthy (as am I) and emotionally and physically available to pursue a relationship. A mixture of masculinity and softness and, because I like to wear heels... hopefully taller than 5'9". ;) Negotiations limited, but possible.I feel the need to say that I am not at all looking for a casual relationship. After a 20 yr marriage, I spent some time reintroducing myself to myself and know clearly who I am and what I want/need and don't want/need in my life. I will not settle nor compromise myself and I hope to enhance my life with someone who is open, emotionally available and looking for the same. There are great people out there... I know, I've met quite a few. Dating can harden even the softest of people, but you cannot let it be defeating; there is far too much life to live and enjoy! Mutual respect, being upfront and open are key. This, I know. =) I am not here to find a perpetual *** People were meant to interact and meet, please be ready to get together in a reasonable amount of time if we find there is mutual interest. Texting has its time and purpose, but many misunderstandings can occur. The voice and all its inflections is a beautiful thing. Let's use it.So here's my sleeve. Interpret what I wear on it as you will... ;) “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”(Carl W. Buechner) I'm beginning to believe that most on here are using this site as a form of entertainment when they're bored and are either not who they claim to be or are extremely hesitant to take that next step and meet. Please prove me wrong. If you're going to take the time to click 'Meet Me' or make me a 'Favorite', please take the time to send a message. I don't see the point in the first two and pay them no attention. If someone is genuinely interested, I assume they'll reach out Upfront and honest - I have tried to correct my age on this site, which it won't allow. I am one year older than what it says on here and very proud and confident about it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Back here again after my last date if you call it that didn't pan out. I'm not looking for the perfect guy just one that I can have a connection with. I am independent and financially secure so if you are the type of person that needs to rescue someone... I may not be it. I would like a full time person. Meaning... I would like to see you more than once a week? If you tell me you are going to do something.. you need to follow through with it. I get along best with someone who can joke around and make me laugh. Someone that knows when to be serious. That is some what a romantic. Someone that can mentally challenge me in conversation. Someone that gets the analyst in me. Someone that enjoys cooking together, home projects or building things, yard work. Lets face it everything isn't fun and games but we could make it be. I've gotten pretty good at driving a deere. I like to do a lot of things from watching a movie at home cuddled up on the sofa to going on a zip line. I will try anything... well almost. Why limit yourself. I don't like to run ***but I like to go out too. I like to have a happy middle ground. I like to plan stuff because certain things have to be planned but also like to fly by the seat of my pants. I am ***percent dedicated to anything I do. I am a person you can count on ***percent. I will have your back at every turn as I hope you would have mine. I am not perfect and I do have a few flaws but I have identified them and I'm working on them. If someone says they don't they are only kidding themselves. Everyone does. At this point in life I'm just looking for an honest, faithful, caring, thoughtful man can that can be my best friend and partner. I don't need someone I would like someone to experience what life and time as to offer. Let's leave options open and be creative. Surprise me.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    People into head games and drama need not apply. Looking for a kind, sincere, honest man who is looking for the love of his life. I would like to start out by finding a good friend, go to best friend and then whatever falls into place. I believe chemistry plays a large part in any relationship, but not everything. I love, love, love the beach or any destination that has a beach. Family also means a lot to me. I have a career and would also like to meet someone that is financially stable. You don't have to be rich, but comfortable is nice. I would love to travel again, even if just a quick weekend trip to the coast or just get in the car and go. Then again sometimes I just like to have a nice quiet weekend with that someone special, grilling, going to a movie or watching a movie all curled up together on a couch or a bed. Must love dogs....I have one that is my baby. During the week would like to go out for a drink or two or dinner in a quiet place to get to know you. Love most sports, only most of them are NY teams, sorry... I've lived in NJ most of my life until I moved here a couple of years ago. First date would probably just involve meeting somewhere quiet for a quick drink to talk and see if there is anything there.

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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