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Katrina, 51
United States, California, Ventura

Offline, last seen Sat, 01 Aug 2026 18:37:42

About Me

UPDATE: Due to the healthy amount of responses, I feel the need to point out, that one of my personal needs I'm looking to fulfill is a sense of commitment. If I see in your profile that your longest relationship was less than 10 years, it is a concern that I would rather bypass. Please, do not take offense by this. I'm sure that we've all got our own personal needs and interests we look to fulfill, so please allow me my own. To those that have contacted me in the past, I hope I have not offended. And to all contacts that I may have not responded to or may not respond to in the future, I personally find this to be the most polite way of turning down your invitation, so if you personally need a response, just simply state that in your message to me, and I will abide. Now, if you feel that you have the longevity in your relationship history, you are spiritual, and you have a good sense of humor, please continue to read my profile.I am a very spiritual person. Not a bible thumper, but I try to make choices based on my relationship with God, and I could not be involved with anyone that does not share this priority.I love a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, I will fall head over heels in love with you, and I am not a difficult audience, since I love to laugh. I would like to consider myself of reasonable intelligence, so I would look for, at the very least, good common sense in my partner. Respect seems to be a common description by others, regarding my character. I try to never, ever, ever pass judgement. I am a firm believer that we are all wired differently, and I find it very narrow minded when we pass judgement on to others because they're not wired as we are. I am an open book, I try to answer everything honestly, sometimes to a fault. I am old-school when it comes to the more traditional roles of the male / female relationship. As I told a friend once, I am a strong, independent woman, but only because I had to be. I, as well as most women I know, am attracted to the leadership trait in a man.I am a big believer in the golden rule of treating people as I wish to be treated.I am not looking for the perfect profile. I know I have many flaws, so I am forgiving of the flaws of others. However, I'm not into the drama. I believe that we have all had our own personal struggles, so buck-up little soldier! Life is only as good as we make it.Please do not attempt to contact me without a picture, because all contacts with no picture will be immediately deleted. Should not be decided by one, but rather a mutual decision by both parties involved, and then, of course, going with what I choose ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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