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Alexis, 53

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About Me

BIG culture change...If I can survive the winter...I am sure I will do just fine. A little about me: Seperated since May ***. Divorce will happen when we can both agree on the community property. I have raised 4 children, alll of them are over the age of 18, married/raising their families. I am very close to my family. i enjoy doing many things, not sure what to do in this area!! While I lived in NC going to the beach, outer banks, fine dining, socializing with friends was a big part of my life. I am very open minded person, easy to get along with. I have a very positive outlook on life, along with a positive attitude. I also believe that people come into our lives for a reason. I am a very independent person. I support myself, so with that being said. My Dislikes: I am not interested in meeting someone that is Negative or Unhappy about their life. I don't do well with people that depend on the goverment to support them. That includes those that are collecting SSDI,that really can work. If your looking for someone to pity or feel sorry for you, I am not the person that you should be around. Not sure....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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