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Shelby, 53
United States, California, Ventura

Offline, last seen Fri, 09 May 2025 09:41:14

About Me

I am a fairly attractive woman who looks younger than her age, I take care of myself and am very health conscious. I am a committed Christian, but not fanatically religious. I'm smart (so if you're a scammer or a liar, trust me I will find out, I have the resources and the brains to do so, it's not even that hard in most cases - scammers will be reported to the authorities). I love animals, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, I love nature, photography, art. I have owned my own business, I am very emotionally stable, no drama, I love to get together with friends and laugh, I'm also fine with spending time at home, as there are many things I enjoy - reading, painting, music, movies, spending time outdoors, taking photographs, exercising (right now, mostly yoga***so I don't mind being alone. But am also very good in social situations, love to talk to friends, acquaintances and meet new people. My life is good without being in a relationship, but I know it would be better if I found the right man for me, who would be also emotionally stable, secure in himself (without being narcissistic), honest, loyal, caring, intelligent, laughs a lot, but can be serious when the situation calls for it, likes balance in life, is responsible, attractive - but not perfect, someone who is genuine - not a fraud in any sense of the word, has a great smile that is warm and genuine. And someone who has enough compassion about women to understand why it could be potentially dangerous to meet in person with a guy without knowing for sure who he is and can verify that fact. First date would be in a public place, probably meet for coffee, just to talk (nothing more) to get to know one another, then decide whether to see each other again. First find out if we could be friends first, then if a friendship develops, we will know at some point whether it will develop into something more. So if you want to rush right into a relationship, especially a physical one, then please do not contact me. I will also use this space to say I am a constitutional conservative, while I have dear friends who are liberals and we respect each others differences, I would not be happy in a relationship with a liberal. Also as I said I am a committed Christian, not fanatic, but this is at a deep level a very important part of who I am, other genuine Christians will understand this, I am not interested in dating someone who is not a Christian. No judgment here, I also have friends who are atheist, agnostic and everything in between, but when it comes to dating, I would be most compatible with someone who has similar beliefs. I do not want to set out to convert or change anyone, I just want someone who shares the same basic values. One man tried to convince me that opposites attract and all that, but sorry, while I know there are exceptions, when there are strong differences in core beliefs - I know that some of you may be turned off by my comments, if so then we are not compatible, I don't have an expectations of finding "Mr. Right" on this site or any other site, it's just one resource and it would only take one man to be the right one. I am not desperate to find a man, I'm just open to the possibility that one day I will meet my soulmate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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