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Bridgett, 53
United States, California, Ventura

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About Me

I'm a small town girl that loves the city to. I consider myseolf to be a genuine and loyal friend. I'll always have your back and will do anything for you if I'm able. I love people and try and find the good in everyone. I wear my heart on my sleeve but don't underestimate me I will and do stick up for myself and have always been able to take care of myself. I'm very outgoing and friendly to everyone I meet but can also be a little shy at first. I'm sassy and sarcastic and flirtatious when the time is right. I will not make anyone feel uncomfortable and respect everyone's feelings that I'm around. I love to ride motorcycles(Harleys), snowmobile, boating, dancing, live rock bands at small venues, playing pool although I'm not very good at it I still like to play. I love dive little bars not big clubs where you know most everyone and you can dance on the bar or tables if you wish LOL!! I'm stubborn and impatient which comes from being half Norwegian and half German at least that's what my parents tell me! LOL I'm also a neat freak,which comes from my mother, but I must say I didn't get the love of cooking from her like she has , I'd rather clean up the mess!! I'm divorced and have no children but love kids of all ages. I'm blessed to have many friends both male and female of all ages. I'm brand new at this and am finding it rather hard to talk about myself because their is a lot to say but I feel like I've already said too much if that makes any sense. lol My friends tell me it's time I get out there and date again but that I'm too picky and don't go after what I like and I said that at my age I can be picky if I like but I'm not about to go asking out any guy just because I like him. I guess I'm old school in that department I've never called a guy and asked him out and don't plan on starting now. I guess I'm looking for someone who has the same interests is stable, secure in who he is, responsible, good looking, please no beer guts or loud mouth drunks that like to fight, the biggest turn off ever. I love the roar of a crowd and attention as well as giving attention back to the man I'm with. I love to laugh especially at myself my friends can attest to that, life is too short to be anything but happy so wishing you all the best of luck in finding what your looking for. And try to keep this in mind, "When you trip in life just make it part of your dance". If you would like to know anything else just ask I'm a upfront and honest person who isn't going to play head games with you. And as far as that goes I've been around the block a few times and have tried most things at least once so they're isn't much you can hide from me as well so please don't even go there. Again, good luck and hope you find what your looking for. II love to go for a ride have a couple drinks , play some pool or maybe a I- I have season tickets , first row in the Barnyard, I promise you will have a blast. I'm really quite flexible and usually have fun no matter what the situation and I'm sure if we find out their is no spark their will be no hard feelings and we can call it a early night!! lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fantasy Martial Arts American Football Sailing Soccer / Football
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