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Jillian, 24
United States, Indiana, Gary

Offline, last seen Mon, 20 Oct 2025 08:15:00

About Me

First: I don't date black guys, not racist just don't do it. (I was told that was racist.... No it's not its personal preference and you're a child apparently) Second: this may make me sound like a b***h but if i don't message you back I'm not interested. and Third: Say something better than hi because thats not gunna make me want to chat with you k. Anyways I am a fun outgoing person. I have 2 beautiful little boys ages 5 & 4. They are my world!!! I love any type of music depending on what mood I'm in. I'm currently a CNA. I would like to further my nursing into being an LPN or RN. I love horses!!! I like to just relax and watch movies. I draw paint and read but I rarely have time to. I want to be respected and when you give it you get it. I am outspoken. I think I am beautiful if you don't that is fine. I have had 2 children so no I'm not skinny but i will be, if that's not ok then that is fine. I am very stubborn/picky at times but I call it knowing what I want and when I want it. Often times I have no clue what I really want but if you get to know me you'll see when I get picky n stubborn. And as always anything guys can do I can do better(or try my best at least lol) :)Also:Do not message me if you want a hookup sh*t ain't gunna happen.Do not message me if you are a shitty father.Do not message me if you do not posses the following: a job, a car, own place.With these said, I have 2 boys to raise I don't need an overgrown man child to raise. I do not want anyone in mine or my kids life that can't stand up and be a man for his own children. I'm not your part-time down-time or spare-time so don't treat me as an option... You won't get the time of day acting like a child or as If I'd enjoy a high school type relationship... No thanks. I like to sit and talk for hours. I like to be surprised. Be a gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging British German Golf
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