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ElvisOffline
Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
Wow, I just had someone tell me that I shouldn't expect many women wanting to go out with me because I am nothing more than a bartender. I truly hope that is not the case because it really shows that women are more shallow then men. I spent 27 years as a counselor for juvenile offenders and finally just needed a break so now I am told that I will be penalized for not having a career goal lol. Wow. I hope that there is a woman who is kind, beautiful and classy that can see that it isn't the job that the man does but the man that does the job that is more important. By the way, bartenders make twice what counselors do.Ok I am adding this. First and foremost I want to have fun in a relationship. I do not like to have to jockey for mental and emotional position. I do not want to spend my life trying to determine who is more intelligent, who has been hurt more or who is better at something. That is keeping score and no one needs that. We have all been hurt or we wouldn't be here, we all have something to bring to the table so I guess what I am saying is that two of the biggest gifts you can give your partner are respect and manners, so if you can't be respectful and play nice then I am not your man. Relationships are hard enough work without someone trying to "one up" the other all of the time. I want to be in love with someone that can love me back for who I am and not try to make me who they want me to be. No one on here is perfect by any means, so if you want to talk to me then be nice. Thank you.To tell you who I am in this is impossible, it is impossible to tell you who anyone is in just a few short sentences. I am complex and yet still very simplistic. I am a man that believes in love and who believes that it is possible to love one person and to adore them more with each passing day. I am a man that is both rugged and athletic but with a soft sensitive side that only a few people get to see. When I love it is with my whole heart and soul, but I have to be loved back with equal emotion.; I am also the kind of romantic that thinks laying in a hammock on beach with you just enjoying the sounds of the waves is wonderful; or just holding hands while walking through a park; or a simple kiss snuck in in the frozen foods while no one is looking. I am the type of romantic that believes romance is a feeling and not an action. Anything can be romantic if you are with the right person. I love to travel, to see new places that I have never seen before, but I also love to share those places, as well as the places I already know, with someone I care about. Nothing in life is as good alone as it is with someone special. I love to laugh and thus funny movies are my favorite as well as action. I am into various types of music but rock and roll (new and classic) is still my favorite. The beach is the most wonderful place in the world and I would so love to live there someday. I do work predominantly evenings so I have to be with someone that is understanding and patient (it won't always be this way) or someone else on the same schedule. Who I am looking for is simple. I want someone who knows how to love and be loved, and while that sounds like a no brainer that is still harder to find then one might think. I am a chameleon, meaning I can find in at any social gathering from a black tie affair to a backyard bonfire, and I would love to have someone else like that. I love cerebral conversation and I think it is sexy when someone has a great mind. I do work out so I would at least like someone who also cares about your appearance. I'm not trying to be a jerk but if you are content to be overweight or someone who is never wants to get out then I am probably not for you. I don’t want some diva or gym rat, but someone who does want to look as nice for me as I want to look for them. And finally, if your ideal of passion is an old pair of sweat pants, a bowl of popcorn and tv movie then I am probably not for you. Those things are great in context but I also like a night out at station square or the waterfront too. I still have plenty of fuel in the tank and need someone who can be just as passionate about love, sex, life and living as I do. If this isn’t you then we probably wouldn’t get along. Let me know if you are interested in keeping up. something light so we can talk
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ChetOffline
Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
*** ¸¸.•¤**¤•.¸.•¤**¤•…... *** .•* Welcome to my profile *•. .•* /•*•.\ ¸..•¤**¤•., .•¤**¤•.*.*/.• iam on yahoooo messanger as *** i walk all the time at work all ways lifting or digging trying to stay fit just about anything outdoors and i dont watch sports do you belive that so no hanging around on weekends glued to the tv lol lets watch life to getther it more real .But I also like movies, going bowling. getting dressed up and going out. I'm happy with just about anything. I'll try just about anything once and twice if I like it Free time I love going to the mountains. I love exploring them or just sitting by the stream.. I like going diffent places sometimes exploring around here or sometimes taking off for the weekend and go exploring afar .Also love cooking and would love to share that with someone. I enjoy going out to dinner, watching a good movie, listening to music, good conversation and laughter! I absolutely love animals and have helped with animal rescue in the past. If asked to choose between mountains and beach, I would choose the mountains every time... love cooler weather... even some beautiful snow! I would love to find someone to share similar interest with with Someone with a honest heart.. who is romantic and knows how to treat a man right... who would hike in the rain and be silly and not afraid to act like a kid at times and let their hair down... someone who would be there through the good and bad times, who is not ,, iam man who can make u laugh and be romantic a females kind of romantic...most mens idea of romance is a beer 5 seconds of foreplay and hit the sheets...lol I want the candles and roses and massage oils this time around,i am blessed and so will you be if you were to make love to me you would be so pleased iam alot of fun in bed more just being playfull there is nothing more wounderful the then loveing a fun playfull women i will do any thing to please you for as long as you can take it i love forplay after play snuggleing ,,then call me because you are thinking of me pop by just because u missed me, long walks on the beach not afraid to show affection or to hold hands. I love to cuddle...and kissssssssss I would like to find someone to grow old with and who will love me when I'm 60 and still chase you around the kitchen . I would like to find a honest person who is not into playing games. I'm tired of these games . If you're not interested, don't lead me on or play head games. I have alot of love to give the right person and a big heart. Open up the book cover and see whats inside you might be surprised at what you find, and you just might like it. I am open for any suggestions as long as we are having fun
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ArdenOffline
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
Sports, music, comedy/humor, and beer are pretty much the four things I lean on to help me maintain my sanity in this crazy world.I enjoy staying active with all kinds of sports. Tennis and basketball are my favorites but I also like running, golf, biking, hiking, racquetball, paddle tennis, bowling, volleyball, swimming, and I'm sure I'm forgetting some others. If you're not somewhat interested in sports and/or staying fit, it is unlikely we would be a good match.I loooove music. It's food for my soul, and my soul is ravenous! I like straightforward rock, alt- I still love going to concerts and feeling the energy of a band in the groove and the audience going along for the ride.I like writing and am determined to make it a career, most likely comedy writing in some fashion. For now I'm paying the bills at a tech start-up as an Operations Manager - a jack-of-all-trades. IT and office manager, webmaster, marketing/product manager, engineering assistant, bookkeeper, researcher, etc. It's a decent living, but just is not my passion. So I've got to make that right.And although I do love beer, I certainly don't overdo it. Been there, done that, in my younger days. And my body eventually said in emphatic fashion "you are hurting me, bro." And I listened. Because I want to live, hopefully for a long time yet.I'm very open-minded and not judgmental at all. I try to look at every day of life as a gift of sorts, since you never know how long you've got. I've been told I'm quite funny and fun to be with, and even charming at times. It's a gift. I suppose it's because I'm quite comfortable with who I am (flaws and all), which is principally a genuine, honest, considerate, funny, guy-next-door type who can be very spontaneous, adventurous, and a bit off the beaten path.For the record, I'm close to wrapping up an amicable divorce. We've been separated and living far apart for quite some time, so we're certainly done with any emotional ties. Now we're just buttoning up the legal end of it. I'm not in a huge hurry to get back in a relationship but that is my eventual goal. So if I met the right person today, I would be actually thrilled to hang up my dating cleats and retire. Because as much as I love women (and goodness gracious sakes alive, I do!), I frankly just don't really enjoy the dating merry-go-round. And I'm just a MUCH better person in a relationship, where there's a deeper understanding, love, and commitment. That's where I feel like I'm at my best. I like first dates to be real casual and fun - ideally an outdoor activity like tennis, golf, biking, hiking, or just walking on a trail by the Bay. Meeting for a casual coffee, breakfast, or food is always good -- perhaps followed by a walk or a movie if things are going well. I'm open-minded and adventurous so any new or off-the-wall activities are fine by me too.