SIMILAR PEOPLE
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BlossomOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
So here I am on a dating site with a mess of people that are from broken families. I'm looking for a family man and most of you have already raised your own children or still have children you are raising.Some of you have never had children.The problem with dating at this age with children still at home…Those who do not have children at home want to run free and spontaneous (not easy for me but I try!)Those who do have children at home don't have a lot of time for dating, like me! It takes quite a while before the children should be introduced so that THEN you can spend more time together.OR, some have never had children and just don't get it!Also everyone seems to have hang ups and insecurities.I just can't imagine having those at this age!Life is precious, simple, and too short for all this drama and emotions.Emotions are fleeting! This means they come and go and have nothing to do with the meaning of life. They simply propel us through life if you choose to allow that to happen to you.If looks are THAT important to you, anyone can be anything they want. You want a Barbie Doll, I can do that!The only thing I can not change about myself is how tall I am.So get over your problems, I'm getting over mine and let's have fun!ONE IMPORTANT THING I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH DATING AND IT DOES RULE ME, if I have my feelings hurt early on in the game then, it's over before it even began and I'm out.Just a boast: I have the most amazing kids in the World, great little people that have hearts of GOLD. I take pride in that and think it speaks volumes about me! --PROUD!LOVE THIS SONG, so I'll share :)"…That's something to be proud ofThat's a life you can hang your hat onYou don't need to make a millionJust be thankful to be workin'If you're doing what you're ableAnd putting food there on the tableAnd providing for the family that you loveThat's something to be proud ofAnd if all you ever really do is the best you canWell, you did it man…"-- Something To Be Proud OfI've chatted with hundreds of guys on this site. I have met a little more than a few, not a lot. I have dated a few.The chats go well. I'm easy to talk to. I'm always down to chat unless at work or sleeping. :PSome guys give up after a few chats if I don't throw myself at them. Narrowing them down, I like it like that.Some guys want to meet asap! Not gonna happen, it's uncomfortable. Some guys want me to come to their house! WTF is wrong with you guys?!Some guys actually try and develop a friendship with me to see what I have to offer. I like that!Then the next step is to meet. I have met a few guys that just weren't who they said they were. Awkward!But I have met a few guys I would have liked to get to know better but they just didn't feel it with me.Those guys are either still friends or completely just disappeared. (looking for perfect which I am not!)I mean I'm hoping someday to find a man that thinks I am perfect, perfect for him!Then I have met guys that we both felt something awesome and pursued it. Started dating. HOWEVER, I have learned long distance does NOT work and since I am such a survivor and giver I will not quit over distance. Sooo needless to say I am the one who gets dumped with an apology. It's happened twice."Sorry it wasn't my intention to hurt you." Apology NOT accepted. :/So I am just NOT going to go there anymore.I am a fricken amazing woman that has so much to offer a true man.I need an amazing man in my life that can offer me unconditional honesty and faithfulness.If I can't find that on here I hope I find it elsewhere. If I don't find it at all, then, eh... that's not what life is about anyway.I think I get life and how it works. It just works.
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MeridethOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I would love to find a very nice guy, professional, sweet, attractive, mature.I have a son, love of my life, 3 years old. I am now in CA but I am willing to relocate, if I find the right person...Life is too short so lets enjoy it... good health and happiness, love, family and friends. God in our hearts and faith.Tell me about you? Sorry, I will writte more later. A place where we could hear each others voice and I am open to suggestions.
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PriscilaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hopefully you'll find some humor in some of what I've written, if not...oops! They say honesty is the best policy---here it is!I am just your normal, average woman. I have moods, emotions and feelings. I'm very compassionate and understanding...I think that has something to do with the overdose of bad luck and hardships I have fallen on the past few years. I am not materialistic at all but that doesn't mean I don't like nice things, I just don't demand them nor do I pout when I don't get them. I have 2 older sons and A LOT of time on my hands so I would really like someone who has more than a few hours a week to squeeze me into their schedule. I'm not into the part-time thing, to me, that's just a waste of time.I'M IN NO RUSH. If it doesn't feel right on BOTH sides then it's not worth wasting each other's time. (NOT negotiable. No, I'm not kidding and yes, I have more than a few very good reason for wanting someone local. My zip code is ***, please look it up if you're not sure how far you are from me).Is close to my age ( I generally like guys who are younger...IDK why that is but it just is).Is 5'10' or taller~I don't want to be taller than you if i'm wearing heels (Due to an ankle injury, I very rarely wear heels so, yes, this IS negotiable)Doesn't do drugs (of any kind-they're totally unacceptable to me)Doesn't smoke or only smokes occasionally like when he has a few drinks (I quit less than a year ago so it's still hard for me to be around cigarettes.)Has some type of a job and can pay his own bills (I'm too poor to support you. Don't worry, I don't expect you to support me).Isn't hung up on his crazy x girlfriend Likes to go out and do something...anything!Wants a serious relationshipIsn't afraid of communicationIsn't a douche!I can be very sarcastic and I swear quite a bit so if my sick sense of humor and 'potty' mouth is going to offend you then we might have a problem getting along. I do, however, know how to 'behave' myself in public, meaning that I am not loud, aggressive or obnoxious in any way. Yes, I do smile and I have all my teeth and they're not busted up in any way. I just really dislike having my picture taken whether it be by me or someone else so what's here is what I have, PLEASE don't ask for more. Besides, I can't tell you how many people post fake pictures, old pictures, blurry pictures or pictures with sunglasses on and look nothing like you thought they'd look. While sex is an important part of a relationship, meeting a few to several times casually does NOT constitute a relationship! I am not here for sex, I can go to my local bar and get that any time I want if that was what I was into-which I am not.I ruined my ankle a couple of years ago which means I can't run, jump, hop, skip, jog, dance, wrestle, sky dive, ski, skate, snow tube (not that I did these things before but I just wanted you to be aware that I do have limitations)...ah screw it, I can't do sh*t and it sucks but it is what it is. I can, however, walk and I can do it just fine! No, I don't limp and no, I don't use a cane or furniture to help me get around :-)~ I'm not into the whole 'first date' thing. I'd prefer to meet and hang out somewhere comfortable and casual (Dunkin Donuts, the mall, the library, (huh?) etc) where we can just talk and get to know each other with no pressure.