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Ashley, 51
United States, Texas, McAllen

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About Me

Hello! Thanks for stopping by! Ok boys... getting real here. IF YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE THRU MEETVILLE, I CANNOT ANSWER YOU UNLESS YOU HAVE A PREMIUM ACCOUNT!😜🤪🤯. Below is my number.... If interested TXT me. What do you have to lose? The worst that could happen would be for me to say thanks but no thanks or block you. We r all adults... or at least I pretend to be. I placed the # for a reason. I dont bite & am not a stalker or a "fake" account. If you gimee a wink, buck up n txt me as well so we can talk. I can be friends & chat w/pretty much anybuddy, however dating, & relationships are a bit different. I do have some deal breakers (sorry)😕😔 IF YOU ARE *Regular smoker * over 50 or under 5'9. (I have my reasons) *An Agnostic or Atheist *Unemployed or have been in prison *Guys that cannot put down or break away from their computer, laptop,iPAD or phone. *Guys that have not or cannot cut the umbilicle cord. I have a mommas boy myself & at some point I myself will have to let go. And will do it. It is part of the mother son process. Lol. Nothing wrong with being close, BUT when mom and sis come b4 wife.... there is a prollem. Please have disconnected yourself. What else... Sarcasm ***is in my DNA, it comes from a lifetime ***of being & working around guys. T-shirts & jean's are what I am most comfortable in but I can shine up well if the occasion calls for it. I can laugh *** myself & with others & am a hopeless romantic goober. ***I LOVE to laugh & try to lighten the mood when needed. My job requires a tremendous amount of my time & I LOVE what I do. If you do not like sports, I advise u to move on to the next profile. It seems super cliche to say I am looking for my best friend & partner in crime however, I have been married to someone who was in no way my best friend for the last 13yrs & it has been SUPER difficult. So the statement of sex being more important... from MY OWN experiance, time spent together is more important. You do not spend ***in the sac. So being able to enjoy each other OUTSIDE the bedroom is very important TO ME. Not hinting the physical isn't important, it is VERY important. It cannot be the glue for a relationship to last though. If you do not exercise and take care of yourself plse move on. I believed I could handle living with someone that did not have the same goals physically and nutritionally as I did. Ah yeah, that would have been like an act of God. Lol! didnt work well at all. There needs to be a symbiotic relationship there somewhere with the same or nearly the same basic goals... there wasn't. Believe... me I tried. Was like working with a fence post. Lol. So, yes I had a baby, yes I have gotten baby weight off. Not quite back to where I was 10 years ago but getting close. Need to REPLACE some of the icky into lean mass. SO, I do know what needs to be done. And am enjoying getting back there. Thank God for muscle memory or this process would be harder. If you do not know or understand the above, plse move on. I will not make the same mistake again. I turned 44 a few weeks ago and my bestie who has known me almost my entire life sent me this, "She has strength to try anything, talent enough to succeed, courage enough to fail, wisdom to learn, & enough resiliance to bounce back even stronger.... The note at the bottom read... add a bit of southern girl spitfire & charm to an already kick ass mom, LAT & friend, & this is who you are truly are, Ash, believe it!" Lastly, faith in a higher power needs to be there. I am not a bible thumper, but I was raised with morals and values and I am headed back to my roots a bit. Have strayed and tried to be something for someone and lost myself a bit. Faith is what brought me back. I am blessed due to that recognition. So, that is me in a nutshell. Will see who reads it all the way to the bottom. For those that have, txt me if ya wanna know more. I'd love to hear from you. I bid you guys a ton of luck in your search. Got a mailbox full that winks and wants, to chat, yet very rarely does anyone follow *** question is what are you on here for then??? Will be anxious to see who is really interested. 🤔🧐🤨😃😎 Take care n good luck!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    No, but my partner can have them

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Political views

    Middle of the Road

  • Body type

    A Few Extra Pounds

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Christian Classical Country Jazz Latin Metal Pop R&B Reggae Rock Salsa Camping / Hiking Cooking Craft Making Dance Fishing Fitness / Gym Internet Browsing Museums Music Photography Playing Cards Reading Running / Jogging Shopping Swimming Traveling Video Games Walking Watching Movies Watching TV American British Chinese English French Greek Indian Italian Korean Mexican Thai Action Adventure Biography Crime Documentary Drama Family & Kids Fantasy History Horror Music Mystery Sci-Fi Sport Thriller War American Football Archery Baseball Basketball Bowling Boxing Dance Dirt Bike Racing Golf Ice Hockey Nascar Rodeo Shooting Sports Snowboarding Soccer / Football Tennis Volleyball Charity Collecting Computer Games Outdoor Hobbies Pets Play Sport Games Singing Social Networking Spirituality Watching Sports To Work Out
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