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Steph, 35

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About Me

Hi! My name is Steph. I am never married spiritual but not religious african woman with kids from United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    African

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tabatha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I’m down to earth with a simple southern charm with big city class and a uniqueness of my own. What you see is what you get, I’m easy going, easy to please, low maintenance, don’t play games, don’t like drama, have no baggage, don’t have it or want it. I’m the person I really am all the time and don’t pretend to be something I’m not just to be liked, I tell it like it is, am straight forward, don’t candy cote or straddle the fence. I can take control yet appreciate when I can take a backseat and let another be my guide. I try hard; do right, am honest, secure, giving, loving, sensual, passionate, kind and grateful. Like others I enjoy the finer things in life and welcome gifts and surprises but am not a materialistic person and enjoy the simple things that money can't buy. I’m an old soul,open minded, free spirited with a belief in a higher power but don't rely on religion as a crutch. At the end of the day you’ll find me relaxing with a glass of wine at home or out with friends. I’m not into nagging,complaining, jealousy, angry outbursts, backstabbing, gossiping, lying or cheating. I’m old fashioned about dating in that I prefer the man to make the first move and take lead which means that I will only respond to *** profiles that interest me in appearance, substance and intellect...major turn off!Life is too short to miss and too important to take seriously so I enjoy having fun with friends, people I love, traveling, painting, living life out loud, taking chances, meeting new people, being happy, positive,laughing, smiling, and being with others who do the same. I love to wine, dine and dress up but also love simple pleasures like the beach, sunsets, pizza, a cold beer, cuddle on the couch with popcorn and movie in my PJ’s. I do what makes me happy, have many friends, and attend social events when I can rather than be a homebody. I’m friendly, outgoing and get along and make friends in any crowd. I have a sense of humor; laugh as much as I can even at myself and like others who do the same, love a ride on the back of a motorcycle, a long bicycle ride, and intellectual conversation. I keep up my appearance and body but am not a sport or gym junkie, I prefer my man to mirror me in his appearance and have hair that I can run my fingers thru. I’m not settling for less and want a man that makes me sigh in awe when I gaze at his handsome face, tingle at his touch, my toes curl in ecstasy and my eyes roll with his skilled kisses.I’m an artist and successful business owner with integrity, high standards, and endurance that allows me to work hard and serve others. I’m fearless, intelligent, educated, skilled, highly trained with an impeccable career as a police officer and investigator for 14 years. I’ve learned that our criminal justice system is faulty, everyone makes mistakes but not everyone gets caught, smart people make stupid decisions, bad things happen to good people, and it’s not my place to judge or condemn anyone for their past. It is what it is. I’m not into bad boys, outlaws, mama’s boys, crybabies, basket cases, liars, cheaters, couch potatoes, posers, holy rollers or someone with emotional baggage from a former love. I want a man to be professional, open minded, handsome, smart, fit, close to my age,,successful, kindhearted, sexy, fun with a sense of humor who loves to laugh,travel,spend time together yet do fun things out with friends and has a free lifestyle to allow it. It would be nice to find someone to explore the wonders here with. I'm interested in making new friends and finding a stable exclusive relationship with attraction, chemistry, passion, compatibility in likes, dislikes, intellect, conversation, stimulation, lifestyles, activities, daily routines, and sensuality that is positive and fun.The right person brings out the best in you, improves the quality of life, allows your dreams and passions to become reality, lifts your spirits, fills the desires of your heart, mind, soul and body,is your best friend and is someone you can spend the rest of your life with. If you are interested, sincere in your search, looking for much of the same, and don't mind becoming friends at first, then send me an ***, which is the only way I will respond if I'm interested as well. If you have no pictures I won't reply. The more you can show and tell me the better. My idea of a first greet and meet is getting together at a local place and having a drink (I don't do coffee and if you you can't handle an adult beverage then you're wasting your time). Within the first few minutes we will know if the right kind of chemistry is there and if not we can part as friends. If things progress well then we might decide to talk over dinner or make plans to meet up again soon. You never know until you meet in person what will happen, so neither of us should be offended if one doesn't "feel it" for the other, this is all a hit or miss deal. Be who you are from the start out the gate!

  • Blanche

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a Teacher by career & a forever student of life by choice. I have been told I radiate passion about my work and, for this, I am greatful as I am able to do what I love for a living!; enjoy beautifying my home by gardening (veggies & flowers & currently lots O weeds too!)....though currently my garden is quite wild and untended! I have more than 10 tomato plants, that somehow "magically" re-seeded themsleves from last summer, and are perhaps competing against one another to produce the best fruits (& they are yummy!!!!)I am passionate about the power of certain things/energies to transform lives, including MUSIC (which i loveLoveLOVE), movement, Yoga, and above all, the act of contributing, in some way, to the well-being of others : ) The preferred listening in my car is currently NINA SIMONE(always my Nina, she's my #;Gigi", Common,Dead Prez, Esperanza Spaulding.... old Godson is w/me (underline age FOURTEEN...please don't admit if you're over 30 & I have aspirations to travel again to East Africa and would love to reside there for several months, maybe even a year. I love traveling but prefer to be amongst the people who live where I journey..........I am NOT a resort gal, nope not at all...i much prefer the "off the beaten path" route.... lol Yes I voted for OBAMA and yes, I still love him, support him and stand by him; so if you are a "loyal" republican I am quite sure we will not be a match & for sure if you are "pro-life"/anti-choice we will NOT get along....I am proud to have been an "escort" for Planned Parenthood (refered to as a "Deathscort" by the "pro-lifers")& I tend to think women are stronger/smarter (lol) then men (sorry if that pisses u off, im just being honest!)........Hmmmmm what else to add here....oh, any day i'd prefer jeans & my converse sneaks over "dressing up" yuk, i am def not a fancy/dress-up and go out clubbing type of gal....I am NoT at all interested in the kind of car U drive but i do want to know what drives your HeARt's passion........i love this little saying,"Injustice Anywhere is a Threat to Justice Everywhere," cuz it sure is & usually when i see an injustice, i don't keep my mouth shut! do you? Something that stimulates conversation & discovery of each others values, interests, aspirations, dreams....it's not so much the place that matters as the person and his/her heart and the connection and energy between 2 people....big plus if u can make me laugh without me knowing you're trying lol

  • Michele

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    PLEASE READ WHAT IT IS I SEEK, OR YOU WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE BLOCKED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I love sports and dancing, and want to have someone to share the good things in life with! I love Adelaide, Australia too. Enjoy the company of a kind-hearted, honest man with good intentions, and naturally, as with everyone, I also have a fairly specific physical type I go for. I LOVE WHITE MALES with dark brown hair, and SLENDER PHYSIQUES, NO FACIAL HAIR, NO BALD HEADS, NO LONG HAIR please. Although I realize I am not going to find that exact type of look, but it just gives an idea of what my type is. I love sports and dancing, and want to have someone to share the good things in life with! I love Adelaide, Australia too. Enjoy the company of a kind-hearted, honest man with good intentions, and naturally, as with everyone, I also have a fairly specific physical type I go for. I LOVE WHITE MALES with dark brown hair, and SLENDER PHYSIQUES, NO FACIAL HAIR, NO BALD HEADS, NO LONG HAIR please. Although I realize I am not going to find that exact type of look, but it just gives an idea of what my type is. PLEASE READ, AS I AM STILL HAVING THE COMPLETE ANTITHESIS OF WHAT I SEEK, RESPONDING, WHICH IS STARTING TO GET REALLY FRUSTRATING FOR ME! With all due respect, but such individuals will be blocked, as I am just like any other human being in that I am somewhat choosey as well. Thus, my intention is NOT designed to offend anyone, but to make things easier all the way round by not wasting anyone's time. Again, I say this with all due respect, as no person is attracted/interested in everyone they see/meet-its just human nature to be that way!

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