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Cathy, 49

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About Me

I am easy going and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am outgoing and fit into any social situation. I tend to think "outside of the box" and try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt and try not to be judgmental of others; you never know what they are going through. I love to have intelligent, interesting conversations but can also be as silly as the next guy. I am a devoted mom, I work full time and stay involved with my kids' school and community outreach (medical) events. I am very open to accepting someone else's children and know that "package deals" are the best! I am a Christian and I am looking for the same. I love animals and have passed that love on to my kids. A good sense of humor is a "must have". I would love to find that connection....the unspoken "I totally get you"...the one. If you are one of the guys on this site that find it necessary to have posted a picture you took of yourself shirtless in the bathroom with a reflection of you holding your camera/phone in the mirror, please do not contact me. The first date should be somewhere laid back and somewhat quiet where we can talk and get to know each other. The first date is when both of us can tell if there is a connection or not so much, so it is important to be somewhere we feel relaxed, under no pressure, and be able to hold a decent conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brooke

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    A little about me -- I have been described as 'unique' -- I interpret this description as positive as I am not like other women. I am easygoing, independent, and not at all clingy. I try to find balance in my life -- I work hard and dedicate myself to give my all...but I won't let my work dominate my free time nor define who I am. The same holds true with a relationship -- give my all; keep it real; keep it fun. Some key elements that I've discovered -- I feel that you cannot force a relationship and, at times, I have found this a very unnatural way to meet someone. Seems as though, although attraction is important, people cannot get beyond the visuals. I believe it is about a connection with someone. For me, taking things slowly while getting to know someone is vital. I believe that people rush into relationships, and anything done is haste typically results in disappointment. Being up front and honest, and courteous leave no room for misunderstandings nor mixed emotions.I still believe in old-fashioned values and chivalry.-- court women and treat them with respect. I hear plenty of stories from women which end in heartbreak. They become man-haters (for a little while anyway) and lose trust in men. I do feel it is due to women's aggression and their mission to find love.I am looking for someone with strength (not necessarily muscle strength***strength in the way he exudes his confidence -- not boastful nor arrogant. A secure man needs no props nor swagger. I do believe chemistry is key but it doesn't make for compatibility. I feel the chemistry can evolve over time when getting to know someone (not too much time!). If it has to be forced, then maybe we aren't a match. That being said -- we should feel excited to see each other -- not feel as though we are an imposition. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. If you feel that we have anything in common, feel free to drop me a line. Good luck with your search. Something casual -- coffee,drinks and apps, or a custard?? Something simple to see if we can find a connection in each other.

  • Lavonne

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Kind, fun lovin, enjoys life. I am very independant, and don't need a man to support me, I would like to find a man who wants to explore life and see the world with me. Be a friend and a lover and hmmmmmmmmmm what else. I do not date outside my race, and I do not want a one night stand sorry.....

  • Emilydn23

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-45

    Hi! My name is Emilydn23. I am widowed protestant caucasian woman without kids from Newark, Delaware, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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