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Stacy, 49

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About Me

I'm going to start off on a serious note. I have a very balanced, simple life by choice. I've been told that I'm better on my worst day than most women are on their best day so if you're looking for a woman with a good head on her shoulders, you will probably be pleasantly surprised.Making other people happy makes me very happy. I am a caregiver. 'Needy' is not in my vocabulary, although 'lovable' definitely is. I am very good at creative problem solving, know how to hold a good conversation and can be very serious when need be, then in the next be silly as can be. I'm not going to try to oversell myself. I would like to date and discover things slowly and enjoy getting to know someone. Taking the next step after dating would be something I am open to. Space is very important to me and I cannot be put in a box. I would like a companion to get out and do things with, perhaps an intimate jazz club, even comedy night at a local hole in the wall. Currently, I am working on the illustrations for my first children's book having to do with invisible disabilities. I always have several projects going on at a time. I would love to find someone who can lead or be willing to learn salsa. I don't want to be rude in any way, but I would prefer to go out with an African-American man. Doing what is 'right' is of major importance to me, along with strength, integrity and wisdom. That will suffice for now ... and I will share more personal things about me as time goes on. I promise. And I have absolutely no problem forwarding more pictures :) 'First Date' doesn't sit quite right with me. I would prefer meeting at the park, talking, maybe even kick our feet on the swing set. I'm a realist. I refuse to type in this little box, "we can go to dinner, see a movie, take a walk on the beach ...." ' I believe that it's hard to pretend you like someone that you don't, but even harder to pretend not to like someone that you do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Kay

    Online

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Here’s the tricky part… I enjoy the little things in life especially within a relationship. Still appreciate those old fashion morals and values; simply stated... Looking for that one overall gentleman. Sounds pretty simple and actually it is.... I am very optimistic . Life is what you make of it, and my glass is always half full! I tend to stay active caring about my physical and my Spiritual health. In search of “one” gentleman, not in search of multiple First dates.Interests are varied....it really all depends on who you are doing them with! Always open to new adventures/ activities. It seems that the simpliest things make me the happiest these days. Music interests are the 80's/90's Rock, some country. Live music ...anything goes, for the most part, no rap though..If any of the above is of interest, it's pretty simple... Just send a message! At first just to meet....Perhaps coffee or a great glass of wine and awesome conversation just to see if there is indeed some chemistry! Comfortable/ casual atmosphere always helps..For an actual first date.... The sky is the limit!

  • Willie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Who am I? You'll find out soon enought...now that I introduce myself please read carefully and to the end it will save you time...and it will save mine as well. After all that section is not just there to embellish the site. Now even if I don't like it (and I think we all don't) this section need to be filled so there we go...Short brown hair, green eyes and yes I know a shorty, independent woman who know's what she doesn't want...Yes DOESN'T because what I want can change but the don't will not...That's the basic and the rest is for you to find out if you wish......... What am I looking for? A man who as a good sense of humour, who know how to laugh at himself and doesn't take everything too seriously, honest, reliable, respectful, and of course tall, dark and handsome....how's that for a start? Not bad hey! For anything else time will tell. By the way, I don't want to offend anyone but I need to let you know one thing...I am only attracted to BLACK men sorry for the others..........Qui suis-je? Vous le saurez bien assez tot...bon les présentations étant faites s'il vous plait lisez bien et jusqu'au bout cela vous éviteras de perdre votre temps ...et le mien. Apres tout cette section n'est pas la juste pour embellir le site. Maintenant et même si je n'aime pas remplir cette section (je suis sure qu'on est tous pareils) il faut quand même le faire donc voila... cheveux courts bruns, yeux vertset oui j e sais je suis petite, femme indépendante qui sais ce qu'elle ne veut pas...oui PAS car ce que je veux peux changer mais le Pas ne changeras jamais...Voila la base et pour le reste a vous de le découvrir si vous le souhaitez.Qu’est ce que je recherche? Un homme qui a un bon sens de l'humour, qui sais rire de lui et ne se prends pas trop au sérieux, honnête, fiable, respectueux, et bien sur grand, bâti et beau...pas pire comme début non? Le reste suivra avec le temps. En passant je dois vous dire et sans vouloir offenser personne que je ne suis attirée que par des hommes de couleur(NOIRS) désolée pour les autres. Please use your imagination ......REALLY use it ;)SVP servez vous de votre imagination....VRAIMENT servez vous en ;)

  • Jan

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Well I have been on here for a bit. I find that internet dating impersonal but it is the in thing. Well what can I say about myself. I am intelligent but not arrogant. I am respectful to those who are respectful to me. I love my job. I swim a lot and try to work out as much as I can. I love travelling and of course I love different kinds of foods. I consider myself cultured but not snobby.I like simple things. For example some days I go down to the pond (High Park area) and feed the ducks. When it is a nice day, I read in the park. Go for a nice ice cream, What else. I love Christmas so I decorate my apartment like crazy. The fact that I live alone, I guess I decorate my apartment for me, Remembering days of when I was a little girl and we always had a tree. Brings back nice memories. I am not selfish and I am not into designer stuff. If I see something I like I do buy it but I don't feel I have to have the latest in fashion. I do like good perfume though and some nice cut flowers near my bed. Bubble baths and chilled champagne. I do like to read a lot. Mostly biographies on political figures. History etc. As for music, depending on the, if I' m alone I listen to classical and read, yes having a glass of red wine. When I am in a sexy mood, Bubble bath for sure with a little bit of champagne. Work mode. Water.I guess that is it for now. AGAIN, ANYONE WITH NO PHOTO I WILL SIMPLY DELETE. MARRIED MEN IS A NO NO FOR ME. Please keep in mind I will not be answering anyone who does not have a photo. Sorry about that.Favourite flower - Purple orchidsFavourite ice cream - StrawberryFavourite colour - purpleFavourite Poem - Treelovers by Lucy Maude MontgomeryFavourite Spot to be at this moment - Off the coast of Vanrcouver -- Agnes Of God Coffee/hot chocolate depending the time of year. Glass of red wine. We can choose together.

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