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Carmen, 48
United States, California, Palmdale

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About Me

"Men always want to be a woman's first love. That is their clumsy vanity. We women have a more subtle *** things. What we like is to be a man's last romance.";To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." Few things in life make me happier than being in the car with my daughter with the music blasting and the two of us belting out our favorite songs, much to the chagrin of any passenger we might have!!I'm a court reporter and absolutely love my chosen career. My career has afforded me the best of both worlds; I can be class mom, be there for my children when they get home from school, and yet still bring home the bacon. My career has afforded me the ability to be well versed on many topics. I see tragedy on a daily basis, so it also has taught me to be thankful for the truly important things in life, i.e., health and a loving family.Although, like everyone, I enjoy the finer things in life; what I'm really looking for are the simple pleasures life has to offer. I want the stolen kisses in the kitchen when nobody is looking, the subtle, tender caress while passing by each other. I want my heart to race when I hear his car pull into the driveway. Am I asking for too much, maybe so, but this time around I'm not settling. I'm not looking for the perfect person, just the person that's perfect for me."She believed in dreams, all right, but she also believed in doing something about them.’t come along, she went over to the palace and got him.”- Here is the ONLY negative comment I'm going to make: If you state in your profile that you're looking for a woman (girl) between the ages of 25 and 35 and you are over 50 but have decided to grace me with an exception in my case, please, don't do me the favor. That tells me a lot about your character. I may not have the body I had when I was 25, but ,“Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it," and these are attributes younger women lack. If you can't appreciate that, we are not a match. Something simple, a walk in a park ( with lots of people around, lol), a coffee shop.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Comedy Documentary Martial Arts War
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  • Carolina from Palmdale | Woman | 50 years old | Sagittarius
    Carolina

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a fun, spontaneous woman who is very active and loves fitness, I take care of myself (workout ***times a week--bootcamp, spin, zumba, ab class, running; eat/cook healthy) And hope u do too :) My pics are all less than four months old. I'm an honest, trustworthy, kind-hearted Christian.I count each day as a blessing and look at my life as a wonderful series of events that have made me the strong, independent person that I am and am looking for one special guy to share my life. Just because I'm confident, strong and secure does not mean I don't need or want a pair of strong arms around me, somebody to listen to me and I can listen to, especially when I need a good opinion. Somebody that understands sometimes all that is needed is to be next to each other but no words need to spoken.Chillin on a patio.....I love quaint, hole in the wall places where we spend casual time together and upscale too. I'm into spending time with friends and family just enjoying each other. I'm ready to hit the bike trails around here too!***much more to see! :)Favorite things: Music--just about any except rap, sushi, pink roses, cooking for you, sleeping in on rainy days, melt me kisses, travel, intellectual conversation, and surprises!I love to talk...not just text :) I'm a Baylor graduate and have a successful career in the healthcare industry (IT Program Manager with the same healthcare system for 9 years), but making time to relax is important to me. :) LOOKING FOR......prefer the intellectual type with an edge plus a man who is FUN! ...a Christian gentleman, charismatic...a man with integrity. I love a man tall enough to snuggle...prefer 6 foot and over :) ...Now that you know a little about me, I can't wait to meet you! :) Keep it simple...dinner, drinks, or coffee...let's see where it goes :)

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  • Mocha from Palmdale | Woman | 52 years old | Pisces
    Mocha

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-53

    Hi! My name is Mocha. I am never married other mixed woman with kids from Palmdale, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Dorthy from Palmdale | Woman | 48 years old | Capricorn
    Dorthy

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm an executive coach who is passionate about helping people find fulfillment in their work. I'm currently discovering ways to deepen my knowledge of important theories and philosophies of adult learning, and I'm in the process of building communities within my profession. When I talk with others about leadership, learning, and personal transformation, I find people are drawn to my passion.I enjoy jazz, classical, and popular music, and I love books, especially literature. Going to a used book sale is a dream for me -- it's like going on a treasure hunt. I'd love to find someone who likes to share what we read together. I like to balance the quiet times with activity -- there are so many great opportunities to do fun things in the DC area, I'd like to have someone special to join me. I get nourished in nature -- I'm an avid day-hiker. And I love animals -- my dog and two cats are very important to me. I hope my new friends will enjoy my animal ones.I'm active and healthy, and want a partner to explore with. I'm looking for someone to experience life with, especially to try things I've never tried before. I'd like to find someone to share my interests, to learn with, to grow with intellectually, to discover new activites. I don't have any fixed expectations -- first, I want to make friends, and see what happens beyond that. The best first date for me is meeting for coffee. I'm a pretty relaxed, casual person who doesn't play games and who doesn't expect a first meeting to tell me everything about the other person. I like to get to know people over time, and hope others will want to get to know me too, because there's so much below the surface of all of us. If, after meeting for coffee, our intuition says it's worth getting together again, a meal or attending an event would be great.

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